“I’ve Done It My Way”

RH

A note from Dr. Hendrix

This poem is my thank-you to the four men who, at different turns, chose to help me find my way — beginning with the teacher who pulled me past my conviction that I could not succeed intellectually. I wrote it because no one truly does it “my way” alone, and I wanted to name the men who quietly made mine possible.

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In charting my course four men surfaced who were willing to support me along my way.   Soon I realized the help was turning deeper in a personal way.   I appreciated the help they give, but taking it to a deeper level was challenging, I would have to say.   With whom do I stick, come what may?   The first was a teacher, with him I overcame my inability to succeed intellectually.   Mid way through though, I decided to step out and go my own way.   The second person was a businessman; this came in my mid thirties; he offered me opportunities.   Then came the moment: do I take a chance to go all the way? Again, I went my own way.   My religious journey was a long way? Two men emerged along the way, their orthodoxy got in the way, so I backed away.   I wrote and spoke from inside of me, I assure you it was not orthodoxy.   Three of the four are gone now the fourth probably too, what could have been had I gone their way?   Maybe more would have come my way, but it would not have been my way.   “I’ve done it my way.”