Last Words

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A note from Dr. Hendrix

I have thought about what my last words might be, and this piece imagines one: a grandchild telling me they are gay, and me answering with nothing but love. I wrote it because if I get to choose the note I go out on, I want it to be the one I was loved with — unconditional, unafraid, and glad for whoever you are.

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You always hope your last words will be your best words for we never know what comes afterwards. I can see the day when you could come and say Grandpa, I am gay. I will smile and say there is no problem with you being gay. Enjoy your life and know it is not show. When I say I love you with the same love of which I was loved. This is the greatest of all truths, isn’t it: love others, as you would want to be loved.